Keegan, Kaleb, & Khloe,
Life can be hard, and you’ve experienced some significant losses already in your young lives.
Grandpa Phil was one of the most knowledgeable, interesting, and kind-hearted men I’ve been lucky enough to know. His endless stories brought enjoyment to all of those around him. Remember his silly, and often inappropriate, rhymes. Remember the life he lived and his ability to make the most out of whatever obstacle was in his path. I wrote a blog post about Grandpa Phil here if you’d like to read it.
Grandma Alice was an amazing, strong-willed individual who loved children and family. She loved you so much. Remember the endless walks and adventures that Grandma took you on. Remember her love for life and her commitment to her family. Most of all, remember that more than anything, Grandma wanted each of you safe, loved, and happy.
Grandma Rose was quite the character. She lived life by her rules and did not back down from her beliefs. Remember her love of flowers and anything nature. Remember her tenacity when it came to survival and living according to her own set of expectations. Grandma Rose loved each of her grandbabies and would protect them with her heart and soul. She had a work ethic that was unmatched, but also a love for enjoying life to the fullest. Grandma Rose had a strong personality, and a loving heart.
Finally, I need to talk about Grandma Lovette. There’s nothing Grandma wouldn’t have done for each one of you. Remember baking pies with her in the kitchen, and eating her pancakes Up North. Look back and smile at her exuberance for fun and her love for dancing and music (although she wasn’t very good at the dancing part). Remember her obsession for antiques and her excitement during Fair Week when she would walk around and look at her entries, while also spending time with the three of you in the animal barns. She was a lady who never passed up ice cream, and enjoyed buying presents and watching you open them.
All of these individuals, while gone, live on through you. Smile when you think of the memories made, rather than be sad about time that could have been.
I truly believe our loved ones look down from time to time and watch over us. When you are feeling sad, remember you can always have a quick conversation with them, ask for advice, or simply just tell them you are thinking about them.
I do it all the time.
I love you,
Mom